I can guarantee you as your reading this that there is something in your biz you wanna do, but so some reason you’re holding back because you’re giving too much of a fuck of what other people are either doing or you think their gonna say.
Maybe you wanna develop that new adventure, maybe you wanna start doing blogs, maybe you wanna get in front of the camera, maybe you wanna change tact and add another revenue stream to your biz.
The art of not giving a fuck and just doing it doesn’t always come easily to everyone
It’s only in the past 4-5 years I’ve started to be able to do this more, but even to this day I still find hidden fears of what people will think that stop me from taking that step in the biz I’ve been wanting to.
Just over a month ago I finally shaved the side of my head. Something I’ve wanted to do for years.
What stopped me?
The BS that people would take me seriously, that I’d be judged for looking too butch, that who would date a girl with a shaved head (yes that was a real judgement on myself), and the freaking list goes on.
But here’s the thing.
People are gonna judge anyway, side fade or no side fade so I may as well do what I wanna do for myself.
And here’s the funny thing.
Since getting a fade I’ve gotten more clients.
Because I’ve embraced a part of me that was hidden in the fear of judgment of others.
Was it easy… ummmm… yes and no.
Once I decided, it was a no brainer hell yeah, but leading up to it I kept drifting between being ready to step out and do, and then think wtf!
Not giving a fuck takes practise… it takes really finding that place in yourself to trust yourself in the decisions you make.
To let people have their opinions and to not let it affect you.
So here’s my invitation to you adventure babe in biz.
That thing you’ve been not doing in your biz because you’re worried about what others will say…
Write down the fears you have around it, and then look at that list and know that it’s all just BS you’re telling yourself cause it feels ‘easier’ to stay where you are than to move through the fear to see what’s on the other side.
And from there you can choose.
Choose to stay in the story and know that at anytime you can step out.
Or choose to give yourself permission ‘work that stuff out’ WHILE you just freaking do it! FUCKING DO IT!
You got this girl.
If you need some butt kicking in either starting your biz or taking it to the next level in the space of not giving a fuck, then you and I, let’s talk.
I’ve got three 90 min sessions available in my calendar.
Oh, you cant book these sessions on my website cause I don’t offer them there. They can only be booked via this link, http://bit.ly/HASHITOUT90MINS.
Grab yours today.
Adventure Seeker. Biz Mentor. Speaker. Crusader for Women’s Adventures.
Need some butt kicking in either starting your biz or taking it to the next level in the space of not giving a fuck, then you and I, let’s talk. I’ve got three 90 min sessions available in my calendar.
You can’t book these sessions on my website cause I don’t offer them there. They can only be booked via this link, http://bit.ly/HASHITOUT90MINS.
Grab yours today.